How to deal with Purple dot- Talkative people

Yes, communicating with them makes me crazy because they care about what while I care about why. I feel my needs is are heard and understood. These things make me overthink about the past stories, that is an unhealthy habit. I am aware of that and learning how to overcome it. I know it will take time for me to build up a new habit. However, everything is brighter when you know where you should begin to self-help.

From http://dotscommunication.com/purple-dot/

Want To Impress?

Build them up. Tell them what a fine job they are doing or have done. Praise them for their contribution. Write them a thank you letter.

Getting Along With The Purple Dot

  • They are dreamers. They are great starters but poor finishers. They talk a lot (even to them-selves).
  • If you need to have a challenging conversation – questions are more effective than to “lecture”.
  • Let them know that they are a valuable member of the team when working well.
  • Be prepared to listen and offer regular praise.

Most importantly – The most important thing to this type is being creative, seeing possibilities, and always having new challenges. They are excellent starters but poor finishers.

OK, THERE IS A WAY…..

  1. Listen, praise 
  2. Question

 

 

Diary of proposal correction 11 Jan 2016

Today I have learned many new lessons about my proposal. Even I don’t meet my writing deadline, but I am happy with that. When I am keen on with myself, there are many interesting things coming up in a surprised way.

1- How to write my hypothesis. (Learn from Teo , Lee, Sing, 2011)

2- How to analyse my moderator

3-How to write my literature review and find my voice in this review

4-How to write about my limitation: self-report questionnaire, single source data (Learn from Teo, 2010)

I have also learned how to control myself, love myself by using mindful meditation. Especially in my communication with others. Yes my communication in this week is less tension than last week. I can see how the effect of Mercy Retrograde on my communication.

When I separate my overthinking thoughts out of me, I can see everything clearer. When I am careful of checking my body,  I can see my body can do many things beyond my busy thought. When I care about my emotion arising in my body, I understand the right time to breathe. When I compassionate with myself, my body is happy.

Just being a watcher with patience. I am transforming myself.