Yes, communicating with them makes me crazy because they care about what while I care about why. I feel my needs is are heard and understood. These things make me overthink about the past stories, that is an unhealthy habit. I am aware of that and learning how to overcome it. I know it will take time for me to build up a new habit. However, everything is brighter when you know where you should begin to self-help.
Want To Impress?
Build them up. Tell them what a fine job they are doing or have done. Praise them for their contribution. Write them a thank you letter.
Getting Along With The Purple Dot
- They are dreamers. They are great starters but poor finishers. They talk a lot (even to them-selves).
- If you need to have a challenging conversation – questions are more effective than to “lecture”.
- Let them know that they are a valuable member of the team when working well.
- Be prepared to listen and offer regular praise.
Most importantly – The most important thing to this type is being creative, seeing possibilities, and always having new challenges. They are excellent starters but poor finishers.
OK, THERE IS A WAY…..
- Listen, praise